1 simple way to turn into a individual, special and unique person -- Or is it the only way?

I was talking to Edmund about trend issues --sitting on the pond like a lilyput. As he was expressing his views, i realised that it's normal to have our own style.

3 catergories: You are either a trend setter, a trend follower, or you go against the trend.

It doesn't matter which category we belong to because there are only 3 categories and being in either one, doesnt fulfill the reason of us being the only one. Perhaps either of us might be under the minority of trend setting, but still not a good reason to be special enough to be known as special and outstanding enough to stand out.

The only reason that make us special individuals; is there are no Eileens or Lisas, not even Andrews. Not the name, but the person him/herself. Even twins have differences! So I guess there are no needs to strive to be special or unique, or even emphasize that we are. For goodness sake, we already are. --when we are born in this world.

So the key to become a individual, special and unique person --- be you!

Even if you try to be someone else (mimic, imitate or follow the lifestyle), you are still you (no clones), still individual, special and unique.

Save our efforts and relax, don't have to try too hard. -don't be too self-centered though?

Hmm..